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Day 7 is from  from John 15.

This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you.

My girls have had a hard time getting along lately (as all siblings do).  So I thought this was perfect.  Elfie explained the bible verse, saying that God loves us NO MATTER WHAT.  Their act of kindness today was to tell each other how much they loved one another.

Click here for Kindness Elf 7

 

Day 8

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We went away for the weekend.  Elfie met the girls at the hotel in the morning!  What a great surprise!  This verse is from Proverbs 16:24

Pleasant words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones.

Elfie brought the girls a sweet treat for this sweet bible verse!  I wanted them to have the experience of kindness too.  Elfie was doing random acts of kindness for them.  They were instructed to use sweet words just like Jesus today.

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Today Elfie was caught fishing!  He was fishing for some goldfish next to the real pet fish!

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The bible story John 6:1-14 is one of my favorites.  It is about how Jesus fed thousands of people with just 2 fish and 5 loaves of bread.  This is a story my girls have heard many times, but they still love hearing it!  It also teaches such a wonderful lesson about sharing and about faith.  These two things are so important and things that I don’t think anyone does near enough.  Share what you can with others, and ALWAYS have faith in Jesus, he WILL work miracles.

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To get the word document for day 6  Click kindness elf 6


Today (Day 4 of our Elf on the Shelf) Elfie came to the girls with a note saying how much our mailman liked his cookies and his note.  He also praised them for sharing so nicely the day before.  It is important that Elfie notices the good things they are doing!

The girls have dance class today and Elfie told them to bring their dance teachers treats with a note today. He said that maybe he will make the teachers’ day just as the girls made the mailman’s day.

The verse today was: 

Little children, let us not love with word or with tongue, but in deed and truth. –I John 3:18

Elfie explained that although saying nice things is good, what is most important is that we DO nice things.  Click Kindness Elf 4 for the word document.

We made some soup for dinner that night.  I suggested that we bring some to our neighbors.  Kares said, “Mommy that is doing something kind and Elfie will like that!”  Although I would her rather say, God will like that, I am still pleased that she is getting excited about doing something for others.

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On day 5  Elfie came flying in!  He was hanging from our Thankful Garland. (Don’t judge that I still haven’t taken it down! Or the messy house…no super mom here…we are very real in this house!) Oh and I am not the most creative when it comes to placing our elf in silly places…we try hard, but sometimes it is just exhausting!

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Click kindness elf 5 for the link to day 5.  Elfie came with this verse:

Luke 6:35 says

But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back.

The note then gave an explanation of the verse so the girls could easily understand it.

Today Elfie asked the girls to bring a bottle of water to the gate guard who checks IDs when we get back on the Army post.  I was so pleased with Kares today.  We had just bought the girls some little candy canes (they have been begging for them).  Today Kares wanted to share her candy canes with her friends at our Homeschool group.  She said this is being kind with nothing back.  I thought, “THIS IS REALLY STARTING TO WORK!”

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I will try to keep posting more and more as we do them.  I hope you are sharing the bible too!


For the last 3 years we have done the traditional Elf on the Shelf.  This was all fine and good, but my kids weren’t learning ANYTHING about what Christmas is all about…GOD!  They were so focused on the Elf, Santa, and the mischief the little elf got into that we missed the birth of our Savior. We missed the lessons on kindness, giving, sharing, generosity and so on. I decided this year was time for a change.  I was inspired by this blog post here.

This year our elf, named Elfie, brings a message to the girls each morning. He brings a bible verse, an explanation of the verse, and an act of kindness for the girls to do.  Not to worry, we still have LOTS of fun.  Elfie finds silly places to hide, gets into things and makes for some silly mornings.  I didn’t want the girls to have the fun taken out of the elf, but I did want them to learn about the bible and about kindness.

Our elf brings a bible verse and act of kindness each day!

Our elf brings a bible verse and act of kindness each day!

Today’s verse is from Deuteronomy 16:17 and says,

Every man shall give as he is able, according to the blessing of the Lord your God that he has given you.

With this verse Elfie asked the girls to make some cookies and a note for our mailman.  We will leave the cookies in a bag in the mailbox for him.

Other ideas are to donate old toys, to bring dinner to a friend, write a sweet note to a family member and so on.  I am also going to have Elfie do random acts of kindness.  One night he might pick up toys for the girls, or put shoes away.  I want the girls to know what it feels like when someone does something kind and asks nothing in return.

Our first day was quite different than a typical day! We are going away for Christmas this year.  The girls really wanted a trampoline from Santa.  We decided to have Elfie bring them one early!  He wrote a note about how God constantly gives us the gift of grace and forgiveness.  He gave us his only son so we could be saved!  Santa gave the girls a gift early too.  Elfie showed up at our house that morning and there was a trampoline in the backyard!  What a great way to start the Christmas season.  Santa did say he would be back to fill up stockings for the girls and to eat the yummy brownies (we don’t leave cookies) that they always make him.  So we will still have our Christmas morning, minus a really big present.  This way they get the joy and the magic twice!

Here is the link to the word document we used the first 3 days. Kindness Elf  1Kindness Elf 2Kindness Elf 3

I will try my best to upload photos and templates if you are interested in doing this too!  I think it is a wonderful way to still have fun with Elf on the Shelf and teach about the REAL meaning of Christmas! Subscribe to my blog by clicking the follow button on the right so you don’t miss out!