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Day 19- click here for kindness elf day 19

Today’s verse is from Ephesians 4:31-32

Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice.  Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.

This verse was great for the kids to hear.  I have reminded them about it often this week.  As they start to argue about who had the toy, or whatever, I remind them, that God wants us to let our anger go away from us. I explained that slander is really name calling.  That God said all of that, if we do it, or if someone does it to us, needs to just go away from us.  To change our attitudes and be kind, tenderhearted, and forgiving.

Elfie also asked the girls to buy flowers today and deliver them to the neighbors.  It was another act of kindness that the girls could do. I got a bunch of daisy flowers at the grocery store for 4 dollars. I used the tags from the ornaments and tied it on with a ribbon.  It made 9 stems of flowers.  We chose 9 different houses this time.

Kailani in her Christmas pajamas ready to deliver flowers to the neighbors.

Kailani in her Christmas pajamas ready to deliver flowers to the neighbors.

Day 20 click here for kindness elf day 20

We are going out of town for the holidays and won’t be back until after the new year.  We decided to take our Christmas tree down.  In the spirit of kindness, we had Elfie take it down for us.

Today’s bible verse is also about being clean…not a clean house, but a clean heart!

Psalms 51:10  Create in me a clean heart,  O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me.

This verse means that everyone sins, but God can help us to make our hearts pure and right!  When you say your prayers tonight, ask God to create a clean heart in each of you!

Elfie explained to the girls that he cleaned up so we didn’t have to! It was his act of kindness to help out a friend.  You could do this with toys, shoes, or whatever.  The girls were sad the tree was down, but thought it was pretty neat that Elfie recruited some elves to help him do it.

 


I have been a little behind updating the blog!  So I am going to update rather quickly today. I apologize that my writing is about quantity verses quality today.  I just want to share the bible verses and explanations that we did daily for our elf on the shelf.

Things are getting pretty busy in our house, as I am sure they are for you too.  I hope you can use the ideas and resources.  I also want to let you know that these explanations are purely my own interpretation of the bible verse, it is my way of explaining it in ‘kid language’ so my girls can better understand.

Day 17- Elfie was laying in a baby doll stroller since this verse is about children.  Here is the verse and explanation the girls received.   Click here for kindness elf day 17

You have had a lot of bible verses about kindness, and that is important, but today’s is about behavior.

Proverbs 20:11 says,

Even a child makes himself known by his acts, by whether his conduct is pure and upright.

What does this mean?  Well, conduct is another word for behavior, and pure and upright mean good, innocent, and right.  So this means that EVERYONE’S, even children’s behavior is a reflection of themselves.  Our actions show what is in our hearts. We are all sinners and all make mistakes, but God forgives!  Is your heart good? Do your actions show this?  Spend today thinking about making good choices in your actions and in your heart.

Day 18- This one was about gifts.  We get so wrapped up in the gifts that I wanted the girls to know that God gave them special gifts too…the most special things are not usually THINGS at all.  Click here for Kindness elf day 18

Elfie was dressed up in Daddy’s fancy tie today!

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Today’s verse is from 2 Corinthians 8:7

“Since as you excel in everything — in faith, in speech, in knowledge, in complete earnestness and in the love we have kindled in you—see that you also excel in this grace of giving.”

What does this mean? Faith is very important.  Learning new things is also very important.  But we should also  try to be honest, loving, and generous.  It is said that we should show our honesty, love, and generosity by the way we live. 

Remember that grace means gift. We should be really good at giving.  This doesn’t mean we have to buy presents for people all of the time.  It means we should give ourselves, we should share.  Sharing toys is a great thing, but also sharing a smile with a stranger.  Sharing a sweet conversation with someone can even be a gift!

The girls had a chart to fill out today.  They had to think about ways that they could share with others.  We tried to focus on personal gifts rather than material things.  I wanted the girls to know they are special, God gave them gifts, they can make a difference too.


Day 15

1 Corinthians 13:4-7.

Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

This verse means so many things. Love is patient and kind, just like God wants us to be patient and kind.

Love does not envy or boast- this means that those who truly love are not jealous of others.

It is not arrogant or rude- arrogant means you think you are better than anyone else.

It does not insist on its own way- sometimes things are hard, you don’t always get your own way!

It is not irritable or resentful-  irritable is cranky, resentful is when you blame others for things

It does not rejoice in wrong doing, but rejoices in truth- this means that love means always doing the right thing, even when it is hard

Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things- This means that love lasts through it all!  No matter what love is most important and will make it through anything!

I tried to break this one down into words my young children could understand.  They were told today to make a list of people who loved them and people they loved.  We found out very quickly that is a very long list!  We talked about being patient, kind, and so on to show love.

Elfie was in a Barbie car with Barbie.  We discussed how we love our friends too!  What joy loving one another can bring.

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Day 16

Matthew 19:14 says,

But Jesus said, “Let the little children come to me and do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of heaven.”

(Message from our Elf)- This verse tells us that Jesus loved children so much!  Do you remember the bible story where Jesus teaches the little children how to pray?  Today I want you to go to Sunday school.  I want you to be one of the children that Jesus taught how to pray.  Have fun with your friends and show tell them that Jesus loves them too!

When you get home, sit down, open your Storybook Bible and read that story together.  Read all about how much Jesus loved the little children!

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Anyone with children can appreciate the bible verse from today!

It is from Philippians 2:14

Do all things without complaining or disputing.

Elfie was in some pretty interesting spaces and didn’t complain once!  He was on the kitchen light and then on the stairs banister.  (we had this verse two days in a row)

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This is a GREAT one! I know that both kids and adults complain…but the bible says we shouldn’t.  When explaining this verse, I referenced the fruits of the spirit again.  I explained that joy was one of them. In order to have joy in our lives, we can’t complain.  We don’t have to like it, but we DO have to change our attitude and how we think about things.

Elfie told my girls to memorize this verse  because it was so important. Well, they didn’t memorize it, and honestly they didn’t really live by it that day. SO they got it again the next day!  Elfie told the girls this verse was SO important they needed to hear it twice and NEEDED to memorize it. Kares and I have talked about this verse a lot.  We made a deal that whenever we hear the other one complaining…we will just say, “Philippians 2:14” and then the other will recite the verse.  I am hoping this helps keep both of us in check!  Even though I try not to, I complain too.

We also finished our ornaments that day. They were SO easy and very inexpensive.  Kares wanted gold balls and Kailani wanted bells.  So we did both!  I got 5 balls for $1 and 9 bells for $1 both at the Dollar Tree. We chose a clearance ribbon at Michaels for $0.99.  Then we took them home and strung them together with our tags that Elfie left us.  At $4 for all 10 of them (one was without a bell) I think it was a great way to show kindness and not break the bank!

Ornaments we made for our neighbors.

Ornaments we made for our neighbors.

The girls had so much fun delivering them.  We talked about how true acts of kindness is doing something nice without anything in return.  We talked about how anything even meant a thank you or acknowledgement of the act itself.  So we put ornaments on doorknobs and didn’t ring doorbells.  It was a lot of fun.

She wanted to carry them in a Christmas stocking.

She wanted to carry them in a Christmas stocking.

Delivering ornaments to our neighbors

Delivering ornaments to our neighbors

Here are the daily notes!

kindness elf day 13  Kindness Elf day 14

I hope your kids have as much fun with this as mine did…AND I hope they do it without complaining and disputing.


Day 12 was about singing!  The bible verse is from

Psalm 68:4 says,

“Sing to God, sing praises to his name; lift up a song to him who rides through the deserts; his name is the Lord; exult before him!”

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Our elf was in our surround sound and DVD player!  I thought this was fitting for the verse about singing.  He told the girls that one of the best ways to praise God was to sing to him.  That day was so much fun.  When we were out running errands, I blasted the Veggie Tales CD in the car and the girls (and me too) were singing bible songs at the top of our lungs.  They had so much fun, they sang praise to  God!  As we were singing Kares asked me what some of the words meant.  I realized that she has been singing all of these words, but never really knew what the song was about.  So it was nice to turn down the music an explain the songs to the girls.  I hope it will be more meaningful the next time we sing them.

Elfie asked the girls also to do some random acts of kindness today. He suggested going to the store to find some inexpensive ornaments.  Then to hang an ornament on the doors of our neighbors.   He even left a little tag to attach to the ornaments.

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Okay, I am going to be honest again. We were able to go to the store to get the ornaments.  But it was such a busy day and a little bit rough dealing with a cranky kid or two!  So we did not get the ornaments finished and delivered.  So I will post our finished product next time.  I explained to the girls that things happen, we tried, and we are sorry we didn’t get it done today.  It was priority number one the next day!

 


Okay I am going to be honest here…I am tired.  Tired of moving this silly elf, tired of staying up way past my bed time to research new bible verses. Then finding the time (usually in the morning before the kids get up) to update the blog about it.  That being said, I find it all WORTH IT.  Teaching the bible is so important!  I am glad that my kids (and hopefully yours too) are responding so well.  They are listening to it, talking about it, and even LIVING it.  So it makes it all worth it! So if you like this blog, please share it!  Share with others, so that maybe everyone will teach the bible with the Elf on the Shelf, rather than just have it be a naughty elf.

Day 11 the bible verse was about the fruit of the spirit.  Our elf was in a fruit basket of course!  (I am going to be honest, I did not think of this idea.  I got inspiration from an amazing Mommy friend of mine.  She is also teaching the bible with her elf and she shared this with me!)

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Galatians 5:22-23  But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.

This verse teaches so much!  Rather than doing something for someone else today, Elfie asked the girls to create a chart saying how they have the different fruits of the spirit.  How they can show these things.  We also discussed how some are easy, like love and gentleness, but some are very hard, like self-control.

I am attaching our note and the chart that I created to have the girls discuss the different fruits of the spirit.  They are all in the same word document.  Click kindness elf day 11!


I am updating again!  My kids are really enjoying the elf, are yours?  My little one, Kailani asks each day, “What message did Elfie send today?” and I love hearing that!  Kares likes to read them too.  Our elf is never really naughty, just silly.  I don’t want to teach my kids to be naughty, but I do want them to have fun. Our elf was in the fruit basket, hanging from the light, in the bathroom…nothing to crazy, but fun still. I want the focus to be Jesus, not the silly elf. Here are some hilarious blogs about some people who go over the top! Click here for 1 Click here for the other

Day 9  We were still on vacation.  Elfie was hiding in my suitcase. (Smart there, he stayed in my suitcase so that I didn’t forget to bring him home!)

 Luke 16:10

If you are faithful in little things, you will be faithful in large ones. But if you are dishonest in little things, you won’t be honest with greater responsibilities.

Sometimes the smallest little acts of kindness and love can make the biggest difference. Today they had to try to hold the door open for someone.  Let them go through first (and do it with a smile)! Sometimes the little things, turn into big things.  The more you do kind and loving things, the more you act like Jesus!

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Day 10

Elfie was hiding in the bathroom. He drew the girls a Christmas Tree on the mirror.  It was really cute.

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Today’s verse was from Acts 20:35

In all things I have shown you that by working hard in this way we must help the weak and remember the words of the Lord Jesus, how he himself said, ‘It is more blessed to give than to receive.’

Today Elfie asked the girls to donate some food to those in need.  We talked about helping others and how we are able to help others.  We can help by donating some food from the grocery store and not expect anything in return.

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Christmas has turned into a focus on presents, that I wanted my girls to GIVE than RECEIVE.

I am so glad that we are doing this bible study.  My girls are learning the bible, focusing on Jesus, and doing kind things for others.  They have really enjoyed it too.  Are your kids liking it?  Leave a comment and let me know!  Do you have suggestions for a bible verse?  Let me know!